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How I Became a Feng Shui Millionaire at 36

My name is Tony Lau.  I just want to share my story here of how I became a Feng Shui Millionaire at age 36.  So I am 38 now.  I started the YouTube channel earlier this year as a way to give back to the community.  There is a lot of knowledge in the Feng Shui world that is kept secret, and I want to share the information with the rest of the world. I was born in Hong Kong.  My mother was really into Feng Shui and Chinese Astrology, she frequently gets our lives analyzed when my siblings and I were young.  I ended up studying with my first mentor through this customer relationship that my parent established. Then I came to the United States with my parents during the 90s.  I kept in contact with my mentor back in Hong Kong, and I make attempt to re-visit Hong Kong each year.  Eventually, I lost contact with him, and later I found out that he passed away. I have studied under different mentors since then. Eventually, I opened my own Feng Shui practice here in Utah in 2007.  Up until that

Are You Dating a Psychopath?

 Wouldn't you want to know if you are dating a psychopath?  Personality comes in two forms, inner and outer.  One we use to show others, and the other side we kept at home with ourselves and families.  In this video, I will go through each of the personality conflicts, which can potentially lead to someone being identified as a "psychopath."

From the Dating series, we learned that there are 10 Stands or 10 Gods literally translated.  Check out the series if you haven't seen them yet.

The 10 personalities are:

- Official

- Power 

- Positive Seal

- Partial Seal

- Positive Wealth

- Partial Wealth

- Shoulder-to-Shoulder

- Robbery

- God of Cookery

- Wounded Officer

A brief on Bazi (八字), we call them by many different ways, Four Pillars of Destiny with 2 Words in each of the pillars, which translate to 8 words and are calculated into 8 different Stands, which defines who you are.  The Stand at the bottom of your Day pillar is commonly known as the "Couple Palace", which represents your love preference.

I mentioned there are two layers to an individual persona.  Inner and Outer.  The 4 words at the top of each pillar represent your Outer persona, while the bottom 4 words at the bottom represent your Inner persona.  Speaking in terms of dating or meeting someone new, you will probably only see their outer persona during the first couple of months or even to a year.

Conflicting in your words is what causes people to go a little bit nuts.  The psychopath is what most would describe these people are.  I think that is a little bit harsh, we all have our flaws, and it is not the end of the day if you have some mental issues.  I know in Asian culture, I was raised on mental issues are not real issues, which I learned is entirely false after living in the US.

So the conflict starts when you have personalities from the same group in the same layer.  The first set I mentioned, I call this the Leadership set, as it is related person's managerial ability.

If you have both Official and Power either the Top or Bottom layer, you have a conflict.  It means that you are an owner/boss/manager that will get upset with your employee/team members, and rules with an iron fist.  But!  You will regret it afterward, get soft and apologetic about it.  That is a pretty polarizing situation.  If it's on the top layer, you will do that to people you are at work.  AT the bottom layer, you will do that to people that are closest to you, or to families and friends.  Assuming you still have any...

The third set of conflicts belongs to the Stubborn set, which is Shoulder-to-Shoulder and Robbery.  The conflict is very mild for this set.  They actually share a common trait, which is stubbornness.  If you have either of these in your pillars, you are a stubborn person.

There are non-conflicting pairs even if you have both on the same layer.  God of Cookey and Wounded Officer are one of them.  You can love food and be emotional at the same time, there is no conflict for that.

Same with Positive Seal and Partial Seal.  You can be a good person and a strange person at the same time.  There is no conflict to that.  It is perfectly fine to dress in goth clothing and donate to your local charity.

So can you spot a psychopath?  Yes, to an extend.  If someone has a lot of conflicting pairs in their Four Pillars, then this person definitely has some personality flaws.  But it doesn't mean they are total bad guys.  There are good people who have eccentric personalities too.



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